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	<title>Singles Coach blog</title>
	<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog</link>
	<description>Advice for singles on dating and relationships</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 20:41:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Who&#8217;s Your Celebrity Fantasty Date? Would it Work Out in Real Life?</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/09/03/whos-your-celebrity-fantasty-date-would-it-work-out-in-real-life/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/09/03/whos-your-celebrity-fantasty-date-would-it-work-out-in-real-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 20:41:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Celebrity Buzz</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A recent Yahoo Personals poll found that single women want to date George Clooney while single men want to date Jessica Alba. Reports have it that George is dating a woman who served cocktails at his table recently, so maybe these fantasy dates are not that far out of reach after all.
The fantasy, of course, is that someone [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Smorgasbord</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/09/01/relationship-smorgasbord/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/09/01/relationship-smorgasbord/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 00:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Relationships</category>
	<category>Personal Growth</category>
	<category>Marriage</category>
	<category>Divorce</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love Strategies August 15th: It was truly a mix of topics, starting with women leaving their marriages in droves, touching on honesty in online dating, and ending with an inspirational quote from Kahlil Gibran on love. Listen to the whole show here.
This story appeared in the Dallas Morning News over the weekend: Why are women leaving their marriages? [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s All in the Family&#8230;or is it? Make Sure Everyone&#8217;s on the Same Page</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/30/its-all-in-the-familyor-is-it-make-sure-everyones-on-the-same-page/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/30/its-all-in-the-familyor-is-it-make-sure-everyones-on-the-same-page/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 01:26:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pete writes: I’m in a three year relationship. The hours that we work differ greatly and as a result, we do not get to spend the time together that I would like. My daughter seems to want to love her, but when I ask her to go and spend time as a family, there are [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Man of My Dreams is Dating Another Woman in Reality</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/26/the-man-of-my-dreams-is-dating-another-woman-in-reality/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/26/the-man-of-my-dreams-is-dating-another-woman-in-reality/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 02:55:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Breaking Up</category>
	<category>Ask the Singlescoach®</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Nina: What a God-send to find your site and books! I’m heartbroken after 1.5 years with the man I thought was the love of my life. I’m ordering your book Temptations of the Single Girl today and can’t wait to read it; I think I’m dealing with Loving a Wounded Guy. He was just [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;The Subtext of that Text is Bootay&#8221;-Carrie Bradshaw</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/24/the-subtext-of-that-text-is-bootay-carrie-bradshaw/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/24/the-subtext-of-that-text-is-bootay-carrie-bradshaw/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 00:56:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Nina, I recently met a man through an internet dating site, we have been on a couple of dates and had a lovely time. The odd thing is that he only texts me between dates (no calls) and he had to cancel our third date due to a hectic day at work, and as [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Put the &#8220;Break&#8221; in Break-Up</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/20/put-the-break-in-break-up/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/20/put-the-break-in-break-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Aug 2010 23:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Breaking Up</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[“I choose to reclaim my sense of personal power.” Great! That’s a wonderful first step for you post break-up. Now you need specific actions and behaviors in order to maintain your personal power. I’ll start with a list of “don’ts”:

Don’t call your Ex unless you have a specific purpose such as arranging to return belongings; [...]]]></description>
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		<title>3 Dates and You&#8217;re Out</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/18/3-dates-and-youre-out/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/18/3-dates-and-youre-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 01:07:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ashlee was so excited about her date with Andrew. He’d promised to meet her at Starbucks at 10am on Saturday. She was there at 9:55. At 10:10, an eternity later, he called saying he was just a few minutes away. He walked in the door at 10:35, after what felt like another eternity of waiting, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Get Back in the Driver&#8217;s Seat of Your own Life</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/16/get-back-in-the-drivers-seat-of-your-own-life/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/16/get-back-in-the-drivers-seat-of-your-own-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 23:40:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Breaking Up</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nothing grabs your attention more than having someone you love abruptly exit. It’s emotionally traumatic, meaning that there’s no way to prepare yourself for such a sudden loss, so it hits you on all levels. You’re sad and/or angry, you can’t sleep, you can’t concentrate at work, and you wear out your support network with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do I Chase? Do I Grieve? Do I Move on?</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/13/do-i-chase-do-i-grieve-do-i-move-on/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/13/do-i-chase-do-i-grieve-do-i-move-on/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 17:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Breaking Up</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sara writes: “Help! My boyfriend, after a 3 month intense relationship, suddenly backed off. Is there any hope he’ll come back?” Danielle writes: “What can I do to win back the man I love? He broke up with me after two years saying he wasn’t ready for a commitment.” Chris writes: “I’m in love with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Are You Losing Yourself in Your Partner&#8217;s Drama?</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/10/are-you-losing-yourself-in-your-partners-drama/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/10/are-you-losing-yourself-in-your-partners-drama/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 01:54:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you read the post - Boredom and Relationships - and saw your partner(s), you may be on the flip side of this dynamic. Instead of being the instigator of drama, you choose people who will instigate it for you. Guess what? You are just as invested in drama as your low-boredom-threshold partner. But you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pay it Forward: He Pays, Now He&#8217;s in Control</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/06/pay-it-forward-he-pays-now-hes-in-control/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/06/pay-it-forward-he-pays-now-hes-in-control/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 00:54:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dawn asks what to do if a woman notices that finances are a tool being used to control her. She tells the story of a guy who insisted on paying, despite her efforts to share the tab, on the grounds of being a “Southern Gentleman.” She rightly ended the relationship when it became apparent that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who Says Resolutions Have to Start With the New Year?</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/04/who-says-resolutions-have-to-start-with-the-new-year/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/04/who-says-resolutions-have-to-start-with-the-new-year/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 01:37:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Personal Growth</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you have completed your visioning exercises (see previous blogs: 2008 Intentions, 2007 Reflections, Current State, Life Vision Statement, and 2008 Vision Statement), then you are ready to set SMART goals for 2010. What is a SMART goal?

S = Specific
M = Measurable
A = Action-oriented, achievable
R = Results-oriented
T = Time-based

A SMART goal might be something like this:

Land [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Liar Liar, Online Profile on Fire</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/02/liar-liar-online-profile-on-fire/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/08/02/liar-liar-online-profile-on-fire/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 22:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since a significant number of singles (30% of men and 19% of women) using dating web sites believe that it’s okay to lie, that puts the responsibility for detecting liars squarely on you. But how can you tell if someone is being honest with you or not? First the truth about liars - there are some [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Let Someone Else Ruin Your Faith in Others</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/29/dont-let-someone-else-ruin-your-faith-in-others/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/29/dont-let-someone-else-ruin-your-faith-in-others/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do I learn to trust again after I have been so hurt in past relationships?
The ability to trust, to open my heart to love and to be loved, is something that I consider my most precious asset in life. I recognize that I am in charge of it, of the ability to trust, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>For Every Action, There is an Equal and Opposite Reaction. So&#8230;Take Action!</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/27/for-every-action-there-is-an-equal-and-opposite-reaction-sotake-action/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/27/for-every-action-there-is-an-equal-and-opposite-reaction-sotake-action/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 01:48:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Personal Growth</category>
	<category>Ask the Singlescoach®</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Understanding and awareness are powerful first steps necessary for any life change. But if you stop there, so does your life. Action moves things forward; action creates real change. Nothing, even the deepest levels of understanding and awareness, substitutes for action.
If you’re not happy with your dating life, get into action. Use these SinglesCoach forums [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Good Relationship with Oneself is the First Step to a Good Relationship</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/23/a-good-relationship-with-oneself-is-the-first-step-to-a-good-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/23/a-good-relationship-with-oneself-is-the-first-step-to-a-good-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 22:48:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Personal Growth</category>
	<category>Ask the Singlescoach®</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Nina: I’ve read your book, Temptations of the Single Girl, and I’m getting ready to read Be Your Own Dating Service and I really need your advice. I’m 43 years old and until a year ago, I have never been in a relationship, and I mean never. I wish I knew why, people tell [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Yours, Mine and Ours: The Relationship Edition</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/21/yours-mine-and-ours-the-relationship-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/21/yours-mine-and-ours-the-relationship-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 00:57:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Relationships</category>
	<category>Communication</category>
	<category>Personal Growth</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Singlescoach: I am a 28 yr old woman and I am dating a 17 year old guy. He will be 18 in 5 months. And amazingly this has been the best relationship I have ever been in. However, there are a few problems…
His parents don’t approve (especially his mother) and my sister thinks I’m making [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Looking for a Beautiful Mind, not a Beautiful Bar Scene</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/19/looking-for-a-beautiful-mind-not-a-beautiful-bar-scene/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/19/looking-for-a-beautiful-mind-not-a-beautiful-bar-scene/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 23:50:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A growing trend in singles land is the attraction of a beautiful mind. Singles in major metropolitan cities are reporting that they are tired of the bar scene and wish to meet someone who shares their intellectual pursuits. Instead of standing in line at trendy bars, they are lining up for lectures and museum tours.
The [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Proper Ingredients Make for a Healthy Marriage</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/15/the-proper-ingredients-make-for-a-healthy-marriage/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/15/the-proper-ingredients-make-for-a-healthy-marriage/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 01:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[In a recent Time Magazine article, the report from decades of research is that marriage helps both men and women live longer and healthier. But if you read the full story, you find that for women the caveat is this: the marriage must be good for her in order for her to experience the health [...]]]></description>
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		<title>If These Walls Could Talk, They Would Say &#8220;Tear Me Down&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/13/if-these-walls-could-talk-they-would-say-tear-me-down/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/13/if-these-walls-could-talk-they-would-say-tear-me-down/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 00:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
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	<category>Personal Growth</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[What happens when you get to the point of “No matter what the outcome I will be okay?” I seem to have the problem now that I know I’m okay and don’t need someone, I don’t get close to anyone.
There is an important distinction between individuation (basically, that I am a separate human being who [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I&#8217;m in Love With Mr. Wrong</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/09/im-in-love-with-mr-wrong/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/09/im-in-love-with-mr-wrong/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 02:48:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I have fallen in love with someone who thinks he’s in love with someone else. I still want to hang on. I’ve let myself fall in love with him, and I feel desperate to keep him in my life in some way even though I know it’s unhealthy. How can I break this hold?
- Julie
The [...]]]></description>
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		<title>R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Do You Get it in Your Relationship?</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/07/r-e-s-p-e-c-t-do-you-get-it-in-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/07/r-e-s-p-e-c-t-do-you-get-it-in-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 02:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
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	<category>Communication</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[For years I’ve written about the importance of communication in dating - being able to open up and express what you really think and feel; listening to understand - so that you can really get to know the person you are thinking of spending your life with. New research shows that being able to open up about [...]]]></description>
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		<title>There&#8217;s No Pill for Being Obsessive-Compulsive Over an Ex</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/05/theres-no-pill-for-being-obsessive-compulsive-over-an-ex/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/05/theres-no-pill-for-being-obsessive-compulsive-over-an-ex/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 03:45:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Sandy fell deeply in love with Greg over the course of their romance. By the fourth date she was sure he was the one for her. He seemed to return her feelings and their relationship progressed nicely until the fourth week. Suddenly, he stopped calling as much, begging off with excuses like overwork and needing time with his [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Divorced, but I&#8217;m Still Married to My Responsibilities</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/01/im-divorced-but-im-still-married-to-my-responsibilities/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/01/im-divorced-but-im-still-married-to-my-responsibilities/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 02:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Dating</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Divorce is one of the most painful of life events, and for women it can be doubly painful because of emotional and financial dependency. Studies continue to show that most women experience a substantial loss in living standards post divorce. On the flip side, successful women who divorce often find themselves forced to provide spousal [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Four Ways to Ruin a Great New Relationship</title>
		<link>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/01/four-ways-to-ruin-a-great-new-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://www.singlescoach.com/blog/2010/07/01/four-ways-to-ruin-a-great-new-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 18:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nina Atwood</dc:creator>
		
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	<category>Advice for Men</category>
	<category>Advice for Women</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[New relationships can be full of excitement and fun, and if you’re on the same page, it’s a wonderful and fulfilling time of life. But they can also be the turning point for your life going in the wrong direction toward pain and heartache that can take years to mend. These dating missteps can be difficult to recover [...]]]></description>
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