One Year Fling or Something More?

Dear Nina: I have been dating my boyfriend for about one year. We live in Hong Kong. He is Chinese and grew up in Switzerland. I am from Britain. I am 27 and he is 10 years older than me. He is thinking of having children and I am not ready for children yet. I feel [...]

Continue Reading 1 comment May 16th, 2011

Is He Pacing or Is He Stalling?

Hello Ms. Atwood: I have recently started reading your book Temptations of the Single Girl. Everything rings so true!  I have been able to find healing and closure knowing the mistakes I have made and how to correct them. Two months ago I was dumped by a man that promised to marry me and love me forever. [...]

Continue Reading 1 comment May 3rd, 2011

She’s Hot: Be Careful What You Say!

Dear Nina: I met a really attractive and intelligent woman at a party a few weeks ago. It was a public event at an art gallery. She seemed very educated and sophisticated; we’re both in our late 20s. We had been talking for about a half hour and really seemed to develop a great rapport. We had even [...]

Continue Reading 2 comments May 1st, 2011

Dating the Not-Yet-Divorced Guy [Love Strategies Podcast]

Can you date someone who is not at your level? If you have ever dated someone who you feel is not at your level, or you are not at theirs - financially, or lifestyle – listen up! Financial mastery makes a big difference in relationships, and we all need to address this tough issue. Maybe you have [...]

Continue Reading Add comment March 7th, 2011

Four Ways to Kill a New Relationship [Love Strategies Podcast]

You’re dating someone new and he’s wonderful! You think he may be “the one” but before you start buying bridal magazines, listen up! Nina informs you of the top four unconscious ways you may sabotage your new relationship. Also in this show: dating violence and how to protect yourself or your daughter. Discover: How you [...]

Continue Reading Add comment February 6th, 2011

Relationship Rehab [Love Strategies Podcast]

If you are over twenty one and you have had your heart broken, you know what it’s like to need some recovery time. Nina dubs this “relationship rehab” and gives you the tools to effectively manage yourself through this very necessary life stage. The temptation is to skip over it, but that puts you on the [...]

Continue Reading Add comment February 6th, 2011

Needy vs. Intentional [Love Strategies Podcast]

Are you leading an intentional life? Do you listen to your inner compass – that part of you that tells you what is in your highest and greatest good? Nina tells you why it is so important to develop a strong inner compass and to listen to it. When you do, you are more empowered [...]

Continue Reading Add comment February 6th, 2011

Divorce Stigma: Are You Marrying Material?

When I was growing up, we were the only family in school that we knew about whose parents were divorced. It made us feel odd and different from others, stigmatized. Turns out we weren’t alone – many people from divorce felt that way growing up in the nineteen fifites and sixites. Now, being from a divorced family [...]

Continue Reading 2 comments January 3rd, 2011

What Direction is Your Inner Compass Pointed?

Some situations in life you cannot control, but during those that you can, self-inflicted situations we’ll call them, how do you handle yourself? Do you listen to your inner compass? Our bodies can pick up emotional energy from other people, and the whole field of emotional intelligence has shown us that there’s a reason that [...]

Continue Reading 1 comment December 1st, 2010

Are You Focused on Marriage? Is He?

When was the last time you looked for employment? Think about how that search felt. Did you sit at home dreaming about your ideal job and for someone to walk in and offer you bundles of money to do something you love? Or did you send out hundreds of resumes, go on several job interviews, [...]

Continue Reading 1 comment November 2nd, 2010

Relationships and Money [Love Strategies Podcast]

The number one cause of divorce is MONEY! Problems with money, issues regarding spending and saving, fights over money issues – the list is endless. Most of these issues could be avoided simply by being smart about money BEFORE you marry or commit to someone. Nina takes on the subject with her guest on Love [...]

Continue Reading 2 comments October 19th, 2010

Facebook Friend or Foe?

Do you ever meet someone and then friend them on facebook? “Friending” has become the new text, which replaced the phone call- the first step after meeting someone. Whether you friend colleagues, new friends, old friends, potential love interests or your relatives, “friending” is a now a definitive step in any relationship. After that first [...]

Continue Reading 1 comment October 14th, 2010

The On-Again, Off-Again Path to a Great Relationship

What do you get caught in that pulls you off the path of a great relationship? Do you date men who are high risk? Men who take you on a roller coaster ride that ends in heartbreak? How do you determine a guy’s character? Do you have a well-defined picture of what you’re looking for [...]

Continue Reading Add comment October 7th, 2010

Stretch Your Dating Muscles to Prepare for a Committed Relationship

You haven’t had a date in three years. You haven’t attended a party or other social event in two years. You work, go home, watch television or spend time on the computer, go to sleep, get up the next day and do it all over again. In short, you’re in the singles rut. A friend [...]

Continue Reading 2 comments September 25th, 2010

Will His Weight Weigh Us Down?

Dear Nina: I’ve been dating my boyfriend for nearly 4 months.  We love each other very much and have talked about getting engaged and getting married. The one thing that has been sitting with me has been the fact that he is overweight and had gastric bypass nearly 3 years ago. I hadn’t “seen” his weight [...]

Continue Reading Add comment September 22nd, 2010

Self-Esteem is Part of Any Relationship

Maggie and Jake met through friends and hit it off big-time. For the first few months, anyway. Then Maggie noticed something new creep into their interactions. If they had any confict at all, Jake went into critical overdrive. “I can always find someone better to date,” he would say, lashing out in anger. He criticized her, [...]

Continue Reading 2 comments September 20th, 2010

When a Man Loves a Woman…He Acts Like it

Fox news reported that Lance Armstrong broke up with Kate Hudson because she was “too needy.” If the report is true – and who knows since the source is an associate at his foundation and not the man himself - let’s look at what it really means.Men don’t break up over neediness. That’s right – even [...]

Continue Reading 2 comments September 16th, 2010

Can Rescuing Someone Financially Wound You Emotionally?

You can’t rehabilitate a wounded girl by loving her. Brandon found out the hard way through two years of turmoil with Brianna. She was gorgeous, even did some modeling at one point. But what really sucked Brandon in was her pain. Brianna had a long history of abuse that began in childhood and continued with every guy [...]

Continue Reading Add comment September 14th, 2010

Can Moving On Take Me One Step Back?

I have been in an on and off relationship for a year and a half and I know it’s not what I want. I’ve started to go out with someone new (only a couple of dates) and I know I need to tell my boyfriend, who in the past has been possessive and jealous. What [...]

Continue Reading Add comment September 10th, 2010

Out With the Bad, in With the Good

Michael bravely shared his story and asked if he and his girlfriend have a chance at a healthy love and a life of accomplishment of goals. With multiple addictions between them, and a family history of addictions on both sides, they have many challenges. Michael: first of all, I want to acknowledge you for sharing your story [...]

Continue Reading Add comment September 9th, 2010

Who’s Your Celebrity Fantasty Date? Would it Work Out in Real Life?

A recent Yahoo Personals poll found that single women want to date George Clooney while single men want to date Jessica Alba. Reports have it that George is dating a woman who served cocktails at his table recently, so maybe these fantasy dates are not that far out of reach after all. The fantasy, of course, is that [...]

Continue Reading Add comment September 3rd, 2010

Relationship Smorgasbord

Love Strategies August 15th: It was truly a mix of topics, starting with women leaving their marriages in droves, touching on honesty in online dating, and ending with an inspirational quote from Kahlil Gibran on love. Listen to the whole show here. This story appeared in the Dallas Morning News over the weekend: Why are women leaving their [...]

Continue Reading Add comment September 1st, 2010

It’s All in the Family…or is it? Make Sure Everyone’s on the Same Page

Pete writes: I’m in a three year relationship. The hours that we work differ greatly and as a result, we do not get to spend the time together that I would like. My daughter seems to want to love her, but when I ask her to go and spend time as a family, there are [...]

Continue Reading Add comment August 30th, 2010

The Man of My Dreams is Dating Another Woman in Reality

Dear Nina: What a God-send to find your site and books! I’m heartbroken after 1.5 years with the man I thought was the love of my life. I’m ordering your book Temptations of the Single Girl today and can’t wait to read it; I think I’m dealing with Loving a Wounded Guy. He was just [...]

Continue Reading 1 comment August 26th, 2010

“The Subtext of that Text is Bootay”-Carrie Bradshaw

Dear Nina, I recently met a man through an internet dating site, we have been on a couple of dates and had a lovely time. The odd thing is that he only texts me between dates (no calls) and he had to cancel our third date due to a hectic day at work, and as [...]

Continue Reading Add comment August 24th, 2010

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