Dear Nina: I’ve been seeing this guy for about 18 months; I’m 36, he’s 35. When we first started out we never put a name to what we were doing. Everything was moving too fast for me in the beginning, so I slowed everything down. Now he wants to party and socialize, and says he doesn’t want [...] Read More...
Continue Reading Add comment August 18th, 2008
The number one question that I hear from single women all over the world is this one. Who asks this question? The woman who hasn’t yet found the right man with whom to share a loving, committed relationship. Where is the right person? If there were a place called “Boyfriends ‘R’ Us” where you could order up your ideal guy [...] Read More...
Continue Reading Add comment August 8th, 2008
Fox news reported that Lance Armstrong broke up with Kate Hudson over the weekend because she was “too needy.” If the report is true - and who knows since the source is an associate at his foundation and not the man himself - let’s look at what it really means. Men don’t break up over neediness. That’s [...] Read More...
Continue Reading 1 comment August 4th, 2008
Hundreds of men and women have asked me this question in one form or another over the years, and my standard answer is this: in every case, two people carry the responsibility for the relationship. “But to what degree?,” they ask. My answer: each person is 100% responsibile for the results of the relationship. “But how [...] Read More...
Continue Reading Add comment August 3rd, 2008
Mike, newly divorced and getting out into the dating scene, made this remark: “I’ve learned not to be too nice to women. For instance, if I see a woman’s profile on Match.com and I send her a disparaging remark, I get a response, usually something like ‘You just need to get to know me better.’ [...] Read More...
Continue Reading Add comment July 31st, 2008
Dear Nina: I’ve been dating a guy for about two years whom I love very much and am committed to. He has issues but mismanaged $ is the biggest in my view - he lives above his means and is in debt. I feel he resents me because I make twice as much money. He seems content with [...] Read More...
Continue Reading Add comment July 30th, 2008
Dear Nina: I have been living with a man for almost three years who I am in love with. I am 41 and he is 43. He has some real problems–he was brought up on fraud charges a few years back–though I know by my own research that he was innocent and was framed. Our relationship [...] Read More...
Continue Reading 1 comment July 28th, 2008
Dear Nina: I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about a month and a half. We’ve been moving at a good pace and I hope we have a strong future ahead of us. I believe he’s going to tell me he loves me soon (he’s given me indications he’s been feeling this way). I’m not sure [...] Read More...
Continue Reading 10 comments July 22nd, 2008
Dear Nina: My fiancé of five and a half years recently cheated on me and left me about five months before our marriage. Since then she has been with that guy. She refuses to give us a second chance. But at the same time she calls every day, wants to hang out as much as possible, says that I [...] Read More...
Continue Reading 1 comment July 14th, 2008
Dear Nina: It’s been three months since I broke up with my boyfriend of four years because he cheated. It still hurts like it happened yesterday and I can’t seem to get over the pain. I think about him everyday. I have read your book Temptations of the Single Girl and I learned so much about [...] Read More...
Continue Reading Add comment July 11th, 2008
